‘Are you on Instagram and Facebook?’ is the common question these days.
A new woman, everyday they chase.
For online sex, it is a known place.
You do creepy talks and leave but, in our minds, forever it stays.
I agree, there may be a lot of women who are willing to go with the flow.
But you must realize, such cheap thrills won’t make everyone’s face glow.
When I tell you a ‘No’, It is a clear ‘No’.
Don’t try to force it, not everyone is okay with being a ‘Hoe’.
I know that these things are now a trend,
But you still need to think a thousand times before you hit on ‘Send’.
I be hesitant in talking to men,
I am scared, they may turn creepy. Won’t even know how and when!
I have experienced something recently,
I did tell him, I am not that kind of girl, very decently.
I was then being called a ‘Sister’
But, within no time, this pure relationship got a blister.
Why do men not realize,
Not everyone is looking to spice-up their sex life!
Before you proceed, act with caution.
Try to find, if she’s up for some spice.
But don’t just start your game even before you roll the dice.
The Bold Vibe 
That’s a power hitter message. Lovely.
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Thanks, thanks, thanks a lot, Yash! This comment coming from a guy is a biggg thing!😊😊🤗🤗🤗
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Ab truth is a truth. If I wouldn’t have reacted to it, even then also somewhere I have known it too that some guys tend to do things like that.
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Yeah, a lot of them.😖😖 I won’t comment about other women since everyone is different. But, I personally feel my friendly nature is being misunderstood as an invitation. Or maybe some men are just desperate in trying with whomsoever they chat with.
That being said, I do have a lot of guy friends who’ve never crossed their line no matter how stupid talks we end-up doing.😇
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Yes sadly that’s what happens in society. But it all boils down to individuals how they conduct themselves. I completely agree with you that women should be respected and one should be not play with anyone’s emotions just to satisfy their lusty desires. That being said I just want to add that not all men are like that who see women with lusty gaze. Please correct me if I’m wrong, it’s the mentality of creeps in the society that you are addressing I hope rather than all males in general. Rather than disgracing the entire male gender. But yes I liked the intensity of your emotions. There are creeps like these who have such twisted mentality and it should be addressed. Well done!
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🙄🙄 Do you really think I’m addressing to the whole community? No! Did you forget my post on the emotional burden men carry?
I am happy that you liked the post.😊 I have a lot of male friends who know what they should talk.😇 But, that being said, there are also women who would be the 1st to take the plunge. That’s one’s choice but, until it’s mutual, one shouldn’t just make another person uncomfortable.
I also won’t shy away in saying, there are men who’ve been the victim of these things. This is a new normal these days!
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And yeah, me rolling my eyes is just my way of expressing. And that’s coz I’ve been friendly with you.🤗 Else you’d again misunderstand which I won’t want (I’m again going to roll my eyes😬🙄)
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Yea i know your intent isn’t to degrade all men, just the lousy creeps that’s something I’m in full favor of. That’s why I mentioned please correct me if I’m wrong its the mentality rather a gender.
There is progress yaar😂 I don’t jump on misunderstanding just like that. That’s why I asked with “please correct me if I’m wrong” kinda statement rather than assuming & misunderstanding. 🤣
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You just did that last time. I won’t forget that as long as I’m here.😬
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Didn’t we mutually agree to the ‘mitti pao’ thing & hey there is notable progress, I’m not perfect… But perhaps a work in progress. Besides as they say Rome wasn’t built in a day🤣😂 so it’s hard for someone like me who prefers to brush aside the hurtful things in silence to express them right away.😅 But I truly respect our friendship, hence going forward I try my best to express my honest thoughts with you rather than be all mute about them😅.
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Hahahahaha…. ‘Mitti Pao’🤣🤣
Nobody is perfect though. Me on the other hand, try to clarify everything but, it still gets messed-up so, not everyone is wired to think alike. And that’s okay!😊
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Absolutely, it would have been impossible for me trying to talk to someone who is as quiet as I am. Appreciate you for who you are! & don’t worry if at all any mess happens between us then we’ll clean it up accordingly that’s the difference between friends and strangers I guess. Let the misunderstanding (though I hope there aren’t any going forward) be temporary and the mutual understanding be permanent! I value you immensely, Bold Girl as a blogger and as a friend😁
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Hehehe… I want to correct you, I’m not at all quiet. I can talk for hours and I still won’t stop.🤣🤣🤣 I am just too picky and I hate human existence, almost.😬🙈 I mean, very few talk sense rest are all full of evil talks. So I don’t interact. And show that I’m quiet which is not true.
And btw, you don’t seem to be quiet either. You just want like-minded people to talk to, just like me.😊
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Yes that’s true once I sense a good vibe with someone from a quiet person I transform into a chatterbox. I’m glad you regard me as one of those few who seem to talk sense. Perhaps those are my perks of being your #1 follower lol (something that I can remind you forever) but yea will never say or do anything that makes you feel as if I’m taking this perk for granted. Anyway I’ll let you go and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day/evening 😁
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Bwahaha🤣🤣🤣 “Let you go” where? On bail?😂😂 1st it sounded like those breakup lines and then it reminded me of jail.😅
And over here, I talk tomorrow everyone. Here the people are too good (except one disaster that I encountered recently.)
I love this place.❤️ I wish, I knew about it earlier or rather dared to start this way before.
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What I meant was I’ll let you go to attend to other things in your life for now. 😅😂 Glad you find WordPress nice and friendly, but yes creeps exist everywhere. I encountered ages ago, she made me understand the true value of the block button lol. So that’s a handy tool to deal with sick creeps on here. 🤣😂
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I encountered one ages ago*
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Ohhh!! There is one? Where is it? Lemme me know pls.😬
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You’re telling you’re letting me go as though I can’t go until you let me go.🤣😂
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Nah my bad as they say in Hindi “Jaane wale ko kaun rokh sakta hai”. Which means if someone’s gotta go then someone’s gotta go none can stop them. So lol i take those words back. 😂
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Hehehheeh….
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She was like a practical NINJA, she didn’t comment or like anything on my blog but she took screenshots and then she approached me on insta. She shared a screenshot of one of poems called and was like can you truly love me like the way you expressed me in this poem. That freaked me out like no hi or hello, straight can you love me like that? It made my eyes pop out of my head in absolute shock and fright. 😒 I was like I’m sorry but it must be some misunderstanding I had no intentions of flirting or anything like that, besides I don’t even know who you are… Then I apologised & blocked her.
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OMG!!! Psycho!🤣🤣 That’s so scary! Hahaha 😂😂 You don’t even know who the person is, whether male or a female in reality🤣 and you get such a message.
Some people have just lost their sanity. You should have given her contact details of some Psychiatrist.😂
And why were you sorry? You shouldn’t be.
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Idk sorry just came out naturally I guess 😅 as an initial part of the rejection process.
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Rejection process?🤣🤣
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Not everyone is willing to participate in “sexting”. Honestly, there are several creeps out there who have zero concept of understanding the word, “No”. According to them, “No” means “Yes”. They just don’t know when they’ve crossed the line….🙄🤦🏽♀️
This poem does send a powerful message, keep it up!
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Yeah, this was for people who do not believe in consent nor do they know what to talk to people belonging to the opposite gender. Be it male or female, all have experienced this.
And thank you, SS for taking out time in reading this and sharing your thoughts.😊
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You’re most welcome 😊
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😊😊
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well written!!! This is a good message for those creepy.
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Thanks!😊😊
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Welcome 😊
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😊
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Fierce one, 😂😂 The ultimate solution, delete all the social media accounts…
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That doesn’t make sense. It’s like not letting the female out of the house coz men don’t know how to behave. And what if, the men inside the house too don’t know to act right?
We must rather teach our kids how to act.
I won’t delete my social media accounts rather get his existence deleted from every where.
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I think you got my answer in my Tomorrow post, give your time to read it tomorrow on 7 PM…😀 bold girl… Am just gave that solution in funny way but again you put me down.. Good,
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I haven’t taken anything wrong. I just gave my answer just like you did. There’s nothing to get offended on. I am not here to play a blog post fight that you say you’ll give an answer through your post nor am I someone who’d want to put anyone down.
If you don’t understand what my comment meant in general, then I can’t help it.
Also since you said it right now, these topics are 1st of all not to joked with. One should act with caution on sensitive topics and also try to get to know the person 1st.
If you read it, it was purely experience mentioned in the form of a poetry.
You’re free to leave, if responses look so harsh to you. Don’t spoil other people’s mood and get into the fight mode.
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You get me wrong… In fact I know what you wants to share with that poetry…👍👍 I am not here to fight with anyone, and why I do that when this platform gives me so many friends, often I said this is my second family…😊😊 We are bloggers not fighters… Everyone had their own and that’s the quality, the potential of this platform.. The post I said will be dedicated to whole girlhood, In that sense I refer you to read…😅 This is big misunderstanding between us..
If you still wants to criticize me then you can, I still reply you, not in fight mode but genuinely. And yeah let me admit, you did a great… Please don’t get me wrong… 👍😄
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I haven’t misunderstood you. My response was purely on the basis on your comment. But seems like, you got offended, not sure for what.
I don’t have time either and so I said that if you felt I brought you down, I haven’t spoken anything about you in the comment I posted. It was just a generic response on your comment.
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Why I got offended, just tell me.. I really wants to know,
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Wow, Bold Girl! I dunno what is better-this amazing piece or the reply you gave above! Anyway, I’ll appreciate both. I just love this piece, and I love how you’ve covered a topic SUCH A LOT of people go through….And I just adore the message above. I completely, indubitably agree with you.
If there’s a lion on the lose, will you try to capture the lion or make sure no one leaves their home in the time being?
People who do this should know how wrong they are, women/victims shouldn’t be restricted from using social media when they’re not at fault.
Once again, love this post!!!!!!!!!😍
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Hahaha… You know, all this while I was wondering what on Earth is she talking about!🤔🤔 What reply, where above?🤔 When I reached the end of this comment, I understood what it was for.🤣🤣🤣 I didn’t even had to go back to check, I just got it.😂 I found it too lame and moreover I never interacted with this human. Excuse me! Do you even know me and how did you even joke around such a topic?🙄🤷
Remember that written communication skills post? It was for this reason.😅😜
Thank you for this huge comment.😬 Btw, it’s a true story.
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🤣🤣🤣
Yess…How could he joke about this? 😏
Ohhh….Noice!! See…Story behind everything😉
True story? You mean it really happened with you?
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Yeah, exactly!
Yes! It happened and I posted this just the very next day, I guess.
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Hehe😁
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