DISCLAIMER -Don’t read it if you hold a tiny mentality.
If you decide to read, read it a little fast.
It’s okay to not feel good
It’s okay to not like your name or surname
It’s okay to feel like a woman when you’re a man
It’s okay to have sex before marriage
It’s okay to sit with your legs wide open even when you’re a girl
It’s okay if you feel like masturbating multiple times in a day
It’s okay if you don’t want to wear a bra
It’s okay to hug and kiss in public
It’s okay to flirt
It’s okay to not believe in religion
It’s okay if you don’t like your parents
It’s okay if you don’t like the place you’re born in
It’s okay to have a hairy body when you’re a woman
It’s okay if you’re a man and you often cry
It’s okay to stay out late night
It’s okay if you don’t follow rituals and traditions
It’s okay if you’re pregnant before marriage
It’s okay to be vulnerable
It’s okay if you don’t like the national and world leaders
It’s okay to fall in love with someone of the same gender
It’s okay to adopt a child
It’s okay to have sexual fantasies
It’s okay to have dreams which are different from the rest
It’s okay to walk, talk, behave like the opposite gender
It’s okay to stay alone and not want to get married
It’s okay if you don’t want to have a child
It’s okay if you’re blunt and outspoken
It’s okay if you wish to settle in another city, country or a planet
It’s okay if you fail in having an offspring
It’s okay if you like wearing a bright lipstick whether you’re a man or a woman
It’s okay if you have a physical disability
It’s okay if you don’t want to be pregnant
It’s okay if you don’t know to speak in English
It’s okay if you like praying behind a closed door or on a mountain top and not at a religious place
It’s okay to be bold, quiet, alone or whatever hell you wanna be
It’s okay if you just want to be the way you are.
What is not okay is….
Mocking people for their way of life
Being judgmental about someone’s way of living. No, you don’t have that right!
Molesting & raping women, animals, men and children
Insulting and discriminating based on colour, caste, religion, gender, financial status etc.
Calling out people anti-nationalists coz they don’t like the government or the national ruling party
Calling women a slut or a prostitute
Assaulting transgenders, women and other vulnerable beings
Killing animals or humans
Greed, selfishness and negative pride
Robbery & theft
Cheating on someone
Shitting in public
Spreading hate
Threatening people of murder, rape and kidnap
Calling out people with disturbing names
Making them feel like they aren’t good enough
Forcing people to kill themselves
Forgetting that you’re a human and you got to be a human until your death!
– The Bold Girl💋
Thank you Era for sharing this song in the comments section. While listening to this, I was just smiling with a teary eye. I had not heard this one until you shared it. Guys, you all do not have the slightest idea how your positive comments make my day.
I am a rebel fighting for the right and always find myself all alone in this stupid world coz my heart doesn’t allow me to fuck with people’s emotions. A right soul born in the wrong society, country or planet, whatever you wanna call it.
Era, thank you once again. I have edited this post just to add this song so that everyone feels the positivity and strength to overcome whatever that they have or are still facing. So that they too feel that goodness still prevails in this terrible world and all that we face in life will only make us stronger for a bigger battle.
Stay Strong!
Yes, I am the one this song talks about – Now she’s stronger than you know… A heart of steel starts to grow.
All the life she has seen,
All the meaner side of me.
They took away the prophet’s dream,
For a profit on the street.
Now she’s stronger than you know…
A heart of steel starts to grow.
Edited four hours later
© The Bold Vibe 2019-2020
All Rights Reserved
The Bold Vibe 
& the eccentric enigma strikes again with yet another fantastic & emotionally intense post! Well done 👏😁
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Hey Siddy, where have you been all this while? I hope you’re feeling better now.
Btw, thank you!😊 I see such things, I can’t hold myself back. I gotta puke it out somewhere.😬
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Just busy with work, blogging myself and supporting other bloggers too. 😅
Hope you are doing well!
It’s good to keep your content raw and uncensored, it gives a rather liberating feeling that way. Great post, keep smiling. 🤟🙂
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Oh! Have you been blogging?🤔 Heheh… I shouldn’t even ask that coz I was off WP for a few days. Just came back yesterday.
Working and blogging at the same time is such a task.😅
Yes, I am okay rn. Mmm.. yeah, I guess so.😬
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Yea i know I’ve been working and blogging so I know how hard it really is to maintain a balance. Glad you are back though.
PS.. it’s okay to not feel okay if anything is bothering you in anyway feel free to share. I ain’t a shrink so won’t charge you a fee to listen to you. 😜
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Shrink?🤣🤣
I was just feeling overloaded with so many things going on so took a break. Kinda okay now.😊 Thanks.
I will definitely reach out if I wanna talk and there’s nobody to speak with. Luckily haven’t reached that stage and nobody should ever feel that way.
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Yes i can understand, based on my experience though don’t wait to reach that dark stage, instead let me entertain you with my nonsensical talks beforehand to divert your mindset from distressing thoughts. 🤣😂
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Hehehe… Nobody can beat me in nonsensical talks. You know?🤣🤣
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Don’t underestimate the madness that dwells within me 😂🤣🙈
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Hehee… We will see someday!😃😬
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Thank you once again.😊🤗
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The ‘not okay’ part is gold. I hate people who do that kinda stuff, thank you for high lighting it BG!!
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Haha… So what about the “It’s okay” part?
Was it silver or something above gold?😅
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😂😂 That’s not what I meant. I meant that the not okay part shows so many things that people do when they have no right…
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Heheh… You still dodged my question.😅
We are the people. We all got to learn and we all need to change.
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So true for both the things you said 😂😂
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Well done! In a way, you challenged the way our so called society thinks! And yes, it’s not right to make fun of someone.
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I always flow in the opposite direction of what the society thinks or asks us to follow. What matters for me is, I’m on the right path even when I got to walk alone.
Thank you for sharing what you felt after reading this post.😊
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That’s great! Good to have someone who shares my views😁
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And the change starts from ME! I am the change. I loved your fearless nature! Keep speaking against the society.
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I am not against anyone at all. It’s the society’s mentality which is flowing in the wrong direction.🤣🤣
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That’s because most people in our country are illiterate….. Literate people don’t have such idiotic views. Unless they are old fashioned 😂
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I’ve seen the most literate class with a mentality which is far behind an old fashioned set of crowd.
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Yup….. Absolutely right….. There are some “special kinds” in every group…. But I think a person who stays silent after so much backlash is even more to blame!!
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Do you mean someone who voiced it out and then kept silent coz of the backlash?🤔
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Hmm….. Not exactly. I am talking about those people who don’t say anything at all. Like for example, some people call you a girl if you dance…. Because that’s supposed to be a “girls” thing. You can give a befitting reply to these reply. But you don’t say anything at all. Just remain silent. Don’t even defend yourself.
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*befitting reply to these people
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Ahhh.. Okay! Well honestly, not all are strong enough or rather bold enough to give it back. Trust me, no matter how bold I may sound here, I have had days where I just couldn’t speak up. I took shit when I shouldn’t have.
There are a lot of aspects involved in one not speaking up. Some are scared, vulnerable etc. And some might be going through some phase and at that moment it wasn’t easy to fight back.
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True….. I like your honesty…. I like that you admit that you too weren’t very courageous. Glad to meet you!
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It’s not about not being courageous but, about how much can a human take at any point.
If your platter is full and you still dumb more food to the already overflowing platter, it’ll spoil the food coz you won’t be able to intake that much. And even if you do, you’ll end-up puking it out or get diarrhoea.
So it’s better to eat the extra food when your ready to savour it. Isn’t it?
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Absolutely true….. But sometimes, we have situations when we have to take in extra food…. Even if we can’t gorge all of it! That’s the sad reality of our society, I guess😐
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Haha… You as well?😂
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Yeah… 😁😂 Same pinch!
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Hehehe… Sorry to ask a weird question but, I really don’t know gotta ask😬🙈
Somedatta is a male or a female name?🤔
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😂😂😂 It’s OK! I am used to that. Actually I really don’t know! But I am a female, I assure you that. Many people think that I am a boy! 😁😀
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Hahahah🤣🤣🤣 I thought the same.🙈😂
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I just love how you confront society and its ways in a very straightforward way. If everyone or most of us could do that, changing the way society thinks will be easier! Thank you for writing this❤️
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We just think, wish we could but, nobody darea to hence, we are at the place we are. Then people like me who voice it out are called crazy coz they don’t have the balls to keep it real.
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Yep, I couldn’t agree more…we need more people like you in this world to make it a better place. A lot of people think this is a cliche to wish for the world to become better, but we really need it to be better especially in today’s time.
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Here is where the problem lies. We want someone else to make it better. Why can’t we start it from ourself? It starts from ‘ME’ always and not ‘They’, ‘You’ or anybody else.
The world is very cruel and no matter how blunt I am, I have at times kept my mouth shut not coz I’m scared but, it’s pointless singing in front of someone who’s deaf.
You’re too young rn and I am not saying this to make you feel terrible in any way. But, yes, if you give someone else the charge to your life, they’ll ruin it. So we better take charge of our own acts.
Trust me, nobody will come to save you. You got to speak for yourself. This is how it is.
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Well, that is great advice! Thanks for this🙂
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Glad you took it positively.😊
I usually don’t advise or teach life lessons.😃 Everyone’s life is different. Probably a child your age may have seen many hardships as compared to you or vice versa.
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I mean, you’re pretty good at giving life lessons….everyone faces hardships and to have someone by your side to get you through those problems is great. What can be better than that?
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Hehehe… Is it?
Well, not everyone is that lucky. Most of us haven’t been including me.
I once wanted to become a Psychiatrist/Counsellor. Glad I didn’t take that as a profession. It would have consumed a lot of my energy.
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Wow, Bold Girl! You’ve written something people often neglect. And you are absolutely right, it’s okay to be different. Here’s to the brave and bold you who decides to speak for those who can’t and for those who feel low at times. Great job😎🤗
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We all should speak and we all can speak. What matters is if it’s important to you or not (You as in the person)
Well, thank you!🤗😊
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Agreed!
🤗🤗
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I can’t disagree with anything you’ve stated here. 🙂
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😊😊
What do I address you as?🤔
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Rob works well!
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Ah, okay!😊
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And how may I address you? 😊
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Haha… By the name showing up when I comment or you may keep a nickname, like the rest have given me one.😬
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From your about me page:
“Her fellow Bloggers call her ‘The Queen‘
She’ll make you see things which were still unseen.”
So, The Queen it is. 😀
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Hahahaah🤣🤣🤣 You too?🙈😂😂😂
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“My Queen” it shall be! 😀
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I ain’t nobody’s queen! You can call me just ‘The Queen’ or ‘The Bold Girl’.
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My mistake! I wasn’t no inferring anything. How about BG?
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👍🏼
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Wow, wonderfully put bold Girl! Well…It’s intresting!
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Thank you, Aye-Ch!😊
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No problem 💕
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Good you addes the emoji🙄🙄 I was so missing it.
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😂😂😂Haha, okay!!
You were???
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Of course, yes!🙄 That was such a dead comment with zero emojis. Like what on earth is wrong with Aye-Ch?🤔 Where are the emojis and why didn’t she use it while talking with ‘ME’?😒😏
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😂😂😂😂😂Lol, okay!
I’ll use emojis in every comment from now on 😄💕❤️
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BG is officially back!!
What do I say? Impactful and thought provoking as always!
Love you for throwing your voice out to all those people who’re doing the ‘it’s not okay’ things, while supporting the others by telling them it’s okay to be whoever they are.
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😊😊😊
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Something wrong?
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Huh?🤔
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Nothing 😊
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Again?🙄🙄 Just say it.
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Powerful BG✨✨ And of course very true!💕 People should learn to RESPECT OTHERS and their CHOICES. People seem to forget their human nature most of the times sadly…
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😊
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❤
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Society is a huge pain in the ass.
I just loved how you’ve managed to capture all of it’s flaws in this poem. Your works sure do leave a huge impact on all of us! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Very well written and powerful post
True!!!
Everybody is unique and should be respected 💙
While reading it, is listening to this song “The Superheroes by script ”
All the life she has seen
All the meaner side of me
They took away the prophet’s dream
For a profit on the street
Now she’s stronger than you know
A heart of steel starts to grow
When you’ve been fighting for it all your life
You’ve been struggling to make things right
That’s how a superhero learns to fly
Every day, every hour, turn the pain into power
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Post edited. Do check.😊😊
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Oh, gif girl, you don’t know how happy I am by reading this, that’s you liked this song 💙💙
You know what this is one of my fav songs, giving me the strength to fight back always
Thank you so much 🤗🤗🤗
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Those lines that you’d mentioned, I could so relate to it so, I rushed to listen to it. I didn’t want to reply to you until I hear it. When I heard, I felt more people should hear it when they finish reading my post so I added it here.😊
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I am so glad you listen to it and relate
As I said before, I was listening to it while reading and felt like sharing it 💙
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Hehe okay. Thank you for listening to it while reading this piece.❤️ I’m sure, it was an iceing on the cake for you or maybe a cherry (I don’t know which one you would prefer😬)
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Hehe 😂😂😂
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🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
That was a question 🙄
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I know, but I was missing your expressions 😂😂😂😂 like this
Let us have a healthier option, Watermelon 😜😜
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Huh?🤔 How would I do hehehe on that comment?🙄
Btw watermelon🍉 on a cake?🤔😯
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Arey, not on that comment
In general saying
Nope, watermelon only 😍😍
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Have you replied something, I got the notification, but can’t see it now 😅
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Hehe… Did you read?🤣
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I was reading something 😅😅😅, just saw the sister-sister sister and thought to get back to it, after completing reading that article 😅😅, what was the complete thing
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Heheheheh…😂😂
I misunderstood your previous comment and replied acc to what I understood but, when I realised what you had written, I deleted it.😬🤣
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Hehe 😂😂😂.
Okay
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😛🙈
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Not everyone thinks the same. That’s the biggest problem.
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I know.
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Leave that, it was nothing.
Now, tell me. What should I do if a complete stranger just started following my blog, liked a lot of my posts without reading them and sent weird messages. I mean it’s not that weird but, things like congratulations! Your poems are lovely! You deserve all this! And here cookies for you!
I’ve been given cookies to eat at least thrice! 😂
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Tell that person to put those cookies inside their bum.🤣🤣🤣 This is the only thing I could think of rn.🤣🤣
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🤔🤔 not bad 😂😂🤣
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I usually don’t talk like that over here but, I just couldn’t resist myself.🤣🤣
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I know 😂
You don’t talk to anyone like that over here.
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You may just wanna ignore or just ask if they even read it. Also, say that they can have the cookies themselves or list it on eBay.🤣🤣
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😂😂
I’ll probably ask them why they’re giving me cookies for free. If they don’t answer, I’ll get rid of them.
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Why did you even ask if you don’t wanna follow.🙄
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Arrey! I’m joking, just like you were! Why do you get so serious?
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Why can’t I fool around a bit?🙄 I ain’t serious at all.😂
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Text conversations can sometimes be a misunderstanding 😅
Of course you can fool around, it’s okay 😂
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I won’t get mad. If I do it’ll be evident.😬
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😬 I hope you never do.
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I have twice.😅
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You were mad with me?
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Naaa🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
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Oh! Then it’s fine. 😅
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You sacred him 😂🤣
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Scared*
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Scared him. I got scared with that. Like excuse me! Don’t trynna flirt with me. Who are you? You’re messing-up with a wrong person, man!😅
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
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😂😂🤣🤣
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Now, let me go get some sleep.😴
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Now what did I do?🙄 As though I’m holding you back.😏
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Come on! 🙄
I was trying to do the excuse me moment. Excuse me, ’cause I’m busy. 🤣🤣
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🙄🙄🙄😏😏😏😏😏
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🙄🙄 good night 💤 😏😏
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Good night😑😑
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Sacred? Hahahaha🤣🤣
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Well said! I loved this one. This is very much okay but it’s more than just an okay post. This is an exceptional post
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Thank you, Shweta!😊
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Pleasure 😊
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This is amazing ,BG 👌
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Thanks, Anurag!😊😊
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Welcome 😊
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Beautiful piece with a liberating feeling 🙂
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Thanks!
By the way, what do I call you?🤔
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Your welcome.
You can call me Aman 🙂
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You’re*
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Hahahhaah… I was just about to ask you how about calling you – A Man? And then, I saw that it’s your pen name.😂
I’d still wanna call you ‘A Man’ if you’re okay with it.😬
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Lol. I’m okay with that 😁
And I should call you as ?
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It’s right here.
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The bold girl it is then 🙂
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Yesss
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Cheers to you, Bold girl, for this fantastic post. 🙋
I’m saving this to read again, and I’ll listen to the song later.
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Thank you! That’s so sweet of you.😊❤️
Just after you finish reading, listen to that song. The experience will be so different, I bet on that.
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Sure! I’ll let you know when I do. ❣
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I shall wait.😊🤗
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Such an amazing post yaar…. You are the bold girl in wordpress….
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😊😊❤️❤️
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❤️❤️❤️
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Okay, I am starting to love your blog 💓 💕💕
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Girl, you made my day by saying this!❤️ Thank you!
Such positive feedbacks are so motivating!😊😊
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Aww that’s sweet 💙💙 And yes positive feedbacks are what keeps us going.
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True!😊
Thanks for stopping by!
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